I wrote this list on the beach on my 25th birthday. I try my best to keep all these things in the back of my mind, sometimes I fail. I learned everything on this list by failing to do them. I’m trying.
- You have to keep moving forward
- Opinions aren’t real
- You are not the names that people call you
- Its just as important to say no to the things you don’t want as it is to say yes to the things you do
- We are all born with unique gifts and talents and its up to us to figure out how to utilize it
- You are not racing anyone. Death is the only finish line
- It is worse to rush into a career you are unsure about than to take extra time figuring out your soul
- You don’t have to say “I love you” for someone else to feel the power of those words
- The only time that really matters is time spent with the people you love
- It is okay to grow out of old friends and find new people who are more like the “you” you are now
- Travel everywhere.
- Judgment can’t and won’t kill you, but stagnancy can kill your soul and dreams
- Good communication and compassion are the key ingredients to sustain any relationship
- Be kind even when you don’t feel like it
- Worrying about trivial things will never move you closer to your dreams
- Never pass judgment or mock anyone who is trying. Period.
- Laughter at someone else’s expense is not funny
- Every race on Earth deals with a unique set of problems and prejudice. Be compassionate and understanding to their struggle and treat all people as friends.
- Don’t get distracted by gossip and other people’s business. It can’t move you forward.
- Trust your gut. “Whats right feels right. Whats wrong feels wrong.” (Thanks Dad)
- Always take responsibility when you’re wrong or make a mistake. Say your sorry and validate someone else’s hurt feelings
- Self reflection is imperative for growth. Acknowledge your flaws and strengths.
- You can never say I love you too many times.
- Everyone receives love in different ways. Figure out how someone receives love and work to make sure they know how much you love them
- Everything exists inside our own head and we have control whether we believe it or not. We make whats real with our mind.
